This year I learned... 1. I don't have to be in everyone's business. Although it's nice to know that people value your presence in their life, being in a lot of group chats, the phone constantly dinging, forwarded messages that later on proved to be fake news living rent-free in my head, sucking the energy out of me. It isn't just worth it archiving, muting, or leaving groups for the sake of my mental health but it also made my day-to-day more productive.